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Human trafficking is a dark reality that often remains shrouded in misunderstanding and harmful narratives. One of the most damaging of these is victim-blaming, a practice that not only silences survivors but also perpetuates the cycle of exploitation.
As a survivor of human trafficking, I know firsthand the weight of this burden. For nearly a decade, I was subjected to exploitation, often placed in the homes of married men. Yet, the question that echoes is not, “Why did this happen?” but rather, “Why didn’t you just leave?” And for the majority of trafficking survivors, our exploitation started when we were minors, imagine a child being blamed for being bought by a grown man. It happens.
This sentiment is not unique to my experience. Cases like the young woman forced to marry her rapist or the horrific ordeal of Junko Furuta, illustrate a systemic issue where survivors are held responsible for their trauma.
The Devastating Impact of Victim-Blaming
Victim blaming is not just a matter of insensitive language; it has profound consequences:
Silencing Survivors: When survivors are met with judgment and doubt, they are less likely to report abuse or seek help. The fear of re-traumatization and the knowledge that the system can be stacked against them creates a barrier to justice.
Perpetuating the Problem: By focusing on the victim's actions, we deflect attention from the root cause: the perpetrators and the systems that enable them. This shift in focus prevents us from holding abusers accountable.
Creating Stigma: Survivors already carry a heavy burden of trauma. Stigma adds another layer of pain, making it harder to heal and reintegrate into society.
How to Become an Ally to Survivors
Instead of perpetuating harmful narratives, we can choose to be allies. Here’s how:
Educate Yourself: Understand the complexities of human trafficking. It’s not always what you see in movies. Research the tactics used by traffickers and the impact of trauma on survivors.
Challenge Harmful Narratives: When you hear victim-blaming language, speak up. Correct misinformation and offer support to survivors.
Believe Survivors: Trust their experiences. Don’t question their motives or actions.
Support Organizations That Help Survivors: Donate to or volunteer with organizations like Survivor Source that provide crucial services and advocacy.
Advocate for Systemic Change: Support policies that hold traffickers accountable and provide resources for survivors. This includes pushing for better training for law enforcement and social service providers.
Create a Safe Space: Be a listening ear. Offer non-judgmental support. Let survivors know they are not alone.
Understand That Trauma Responses Vary: There is no one way to react to trauma. Survivors may seem withdrawn, angry, or have difficulty trusting others. This is normal.
Recognize Resilience: We are survivors, not broken individuals. We are resilient, and we are worthy of support and respect.
We've survived slavery. Please don't make us survive your judgment too. We need allies, not critics. We need understanding, not blame. We need you to help us create a world where survivors can truly heal and thrive.
By shifting our focus from blame to support, we can create a society where survivors are empowered to rebuild their lives and where human trafficking is no longer tolerated.
Lara K. - March 19, 2025
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